Who Am I? Who are you?

Came cross this quote from Thomas Merton this morning, stopped me cold in my track:

If you want to identify me, 

ask me 

not where I live, 

or what I like to eat, 

or how I comb my hair, 

but ask me what I think I am living for, in detail, 

and ask me what I think is keeping me from living fully for the thing I want to live for. 

Between these two answers you can determine the identity of any person.   

How would you answer these two questions? 

Read more about Thomas Merton here